Friday, September 6, 2013

Life Sketch of Virgil Franklin Cook - Part Three

     
Frank and Ilene
     Frank loved to sing and sang for many years with the Magichords chapter of the SPEBSQSA and for the last few years with the quartet “Snake River Transfer.”  Through his singing Frank, once again demonstrated his love and compassion for his family.  Two years ago, Max, Frank’s brother-in-law, was killed in a terrible accident.  Previously Frank had borrowed some umpire gear from Max for a number the quartet was singing.  Our family came over not long after the accident to the Magichords’ fall show.  After the show at the afterglow, Frank’s quartet sang and dedicated their numbers to Max’s memory.  They sang “Take Me Out to the Ball Game” and “God Be with You Till We Meet Again.”  There was not a dry eye in the house.
    
Snake River Transfers-Frank is on the far left
     Frank’s Christ like love as also shown in the love and care that he gave Ilene’s mother during the time that she lived with them and needed constant care.  He patiently and willing gave his time and love to her.
     Frank was a wonderful husband, father and grandfather.  He always showed the greatest of love and respect for Schatz.  You could literally see the love and compassion he had for her.  Because of his great example, his sons have carried over the same traditions.  He always enjoyed attending any sport or other events that his family was in.  They all knew that Frank would be there cheering them all no matter what.  Even when Frank was so ill, he still attended Braydon’s last flag football game and went up to Hailey to Dustin and Levi’s soccer games.  He wasn’t always able to get out of the car, but he was there to cheer his grandsons on.  They will always have so many wonderful memories of him.
    
Frank and Craig in Road Show
     Every year the second Sunday of December the Utah State Choir travels to Sun Valley for two weeks.  There they are no longer the Utah Sate Choir but are called the Sun Valley Carolers.  As part of their stay in Sun Valley, they combine with the Hailey 1st and 2nd ward and present the Sacrament Meeting program.  It is a tradition for the rest of the family to travel to Sun Valley to spend this time with Craig and his family.  Well this year, Frank was pretty sick.  Ilene told him that they wouldn't be able to make the trip.  Frank insisted that they were going to make the trip because it meant so much to him to be able to spend this special time with Craig and LaShell.  Ilene relented; they made the trip and spent a wonderful time with them.  Frank was able to once again show his great love for Craig.
    
Frank in Boise
     David recalls how his dad would always drive down the middle of the road after a snow storm.  He would just drive down the center and splash all the slush out of the middle of the road.  David 
couldn't figure out what Frank was doing this for.  So one time David asked Frank why he was driving down the middle of the road.  Frank told him that if you would spread the snow out across the roads it would melt faster and then he wouldn't have to drive on icy roads.  So now when you see David driving down the center of the road, you’ll know why.  He learned it from his Dad.  David also recalls when they were in the process of moving to a new home.  He was quite young and found a set of keys on the floor.  He picked them up and stuck one of them into an electrical outlet.  David was literally knocked backwards.  Frank came running kicked the keys out of the outlet, immediately picked David up and lovingly said, “Oh, I am so sorry.”  Not a cross word or you should have known better, only love and concern for his young son.
    
Frank and his brothers, Theron, Kay and Darrell
     The very first memory of Steven’s life is when the family lived over on Washington.  The house had a large bay window that was only about a foot and a half off of the floor that Steven could look out of.  He would always go to that window and wave to Frank when he left for work.  Frank would back out, stop and wave, drive a little ways and stop and wave again.  Then would wave as he drove off down the street.  Steven would always watch for his Dad to come home too.  Sometimes Craig and David would tease him and say “Dad’s home, Dad’s home.”  Steven would run to the window but Frank 
wouldn't be there.  Steven would leave the window crying.
Frank and his mother, Ruth Elizabeth Proctor Cook
    Steven also remembers his dad’s interest in everything that he attempted to do.  When Steven was wrestling, Frank learned all he could about the sport and worked with Steven at home on the various moves.  He was always there for his sons.  The boys all took up skiing so Frank decided that he would too, even though he had a really bad knee.  One time up at Soldier Mountain, Steven decided that he wanted a great jump picture.  So he found the perfect spot and asked Frank to stay at the bottom and get this wonderful picture.  Steven didn’t notice that the jump had a lip on it that went straight up in the air.  Steven got ready to go and called down to ask Frank if he was ready.  Frank was messing with the camera and signaling with his arms.  Steven thought that was the sign that he was ready.  Off he went but instead of going like he thought he should, he went straight up in the air feet up.  Down he came and bounced about three times before he started rolling.  Skis, goggles, and gloves were strewn everywhere.  After Steven could finally get his breath, he asked his dad if he had gotten it all on film.  Frank told him, “No I didn’t.  That’s why I was signaling to you not to go.”  Steven decided that he wasn’t going to go through all that pain and not have a picture of it, so up he went again only to do the very same thing again, but this time Frank got the picture.

Frank and Ilene, Theron and Cindy, Lois and Mark, Kay and Carla
at David's Wedding Aug 1991


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