Friday, December 27, 2013

Life Story of Ruth Elizabeth Proctor-Part Eight

Written by
Ruth Elizabeth Proctor Cook
Ruth and Cleo

Kay
While in Lovell, another baby came to our home.  Everyone was so happy.  Lois and Joyce wanted a baby sister and Franklin and Theron wanted a baby brother.  The morning of 27 April 1953, a Monday morning, Cleo and George had left early to go back to work on the high power lines.  I was up early so I thought I would wash clothes.  I just had one sheet on the line when my next door neighbor came out of her house.  The kids had gone to school and Lois was with me.  Libby had gone to Utah to visit one of her sister's.  She was supposed to watch Lois while I went to the hospital.  I had a very sharp pain just as my neighbor, whose name was also Ruth, came around where I was.  She got Lois ready and took her over to the neighbors while she took me to the hospital.  Then she called Beverly Smith so she could get a hold of her husband Bob who was Cleo's boss and have someone bring Cleo to the hospital.  We had a baby boy.  We named him George Kay Cook.  Cleo didn't get there until after I had the baby.  Dr. Croft and his nurse gave me a spinal, which we had told them I didn't want.  After the baby was born I was paralyzed from my waist down for almost ten days.  We were so frightened and so was the doctor. If I had known then what I know now I would have sued him and his nurse.  I told Cleo the doctor gave me a spinal.  When he asked the doctor about it, the doctor said I hadn't told him not to.  He was using me as a trial run in that spinal, but it was my word against Dr. Croft and his nurse. 
Ruth and Kay
When I got my strength back, we went to Yellowstone Park again.  We made our big long bed with Cleo and George on the outside, me next to Cleo and Libby next to George.  We had Kay in a baby buggy at the foot of the bed.  All of a sudden George yelled out Sally (that is what he called Libby) quit licking my hand.  Libby told George she was not licking his hand.  George lifted up the side of the tent and there was a bear just a licking his hand.  He came up out of that bed a yelling and swinging his arms.  Cleo had to tackle him and sit on him so he didn't bring our tent down on all of us.  George never slept with his hand outside the tent any more.  We had so many good times with George and Libby.  They would come down into our home and George would sit in a big chair we had there.  He would play with the kids when he left the kids would argue whose turn it was to get the money he let slide out of his pockets.  After we had Kay home a while, they all wanted to keep him.  When Cleo went to get the kids and let them come and see me and the new baby, Lois told her dad he could take the baby back because she wanted a little sister.  The boys said they wanted to keep him!
Kay
Lois, Kay and Joyce
We stayed in Lovelle until the first part of August 1953.  Then the government decided there wasn't enough money to finish the high power line, so they let all the men go and closed down the project.  I felt so bad because Cleo had told me that the Indians had bought refrigerators and all kinds of things that would use the electricity.  Now they wouldn't have it.
Kay, Joyce and Lois in Menan
We came back to Menan.  We had rented our home while we were in Wyoming.  We had written to them and told them we were coming back to our home, but they hadn't started to move.  So we went over to Grant where Cleo's folks lived and we stayed there until we could get into our home.  Cleo brought the kids who were going to school over to Menan.  Franklin would have to catch a bus to get to his school.  When the renters finally moved out, did they ever leave us a mess.  They had glued linoleum down on the kitchen floor and then tried to take it up.  It had broken off in so many pieces.  The sticky mess had to be cleaned up with putty knifes.  They also took all my curtain rods, the drop cord lights from the ceilings, my towel rack and the place where you put the toilet paper.  They had painted the front room floor a ucky color brown and the walls half way up a horrible green.  We had left a desk here for them to use.  They took the drawers out of it and made shelves on the one side of it.  They also took all my curtains, left a dirty stove I had in it, dirty sinks in the kitchen and bathroom.  All in all we had quite a time getting our home fixed up so we could move back in to it.  I told Cleo if he was going to follow the high power line jobs, he would have to go without the kids and me.  I wasn't going to rent my home anymore and it would be too hard on the kids to moved them from one state to another for schooling.
Kay and Cleo

Kay and Ruth
Lois and Kay
Ruth, Kay and Old Pal
Kay and Lois
Kay
Kay and Cleo
On the 22 October 1954, we had another member of our family come to our home.  His name was Darrell James Cook.  That made our family of four boys and two girls, whom we love dearly.  
Darrell
Darrell
Darrell
Darrell
Darrell
Kay and Darrell
Theron, Joyce, Cleo, Ruth, Lois, Frank, Darrell and Kay
I started to work in the Primary with the six year olds.  I was also Jr. Gleaner leader.  I enjoyed these calls.  I was set apart as a teacher in the Jr. Sunday School by Brother Milton Hammon.  Janice Raymond was the other teacher in that class.  This was 22 September 1957.  Also early that year on 21 April 1957 Bishop Leo S. Waters set me apart as sports director in the Young ladies program.  I surely did enjoy this calling.  Here are some of the young ladies who played on my ball team:  Drue Berrett, Beverly Fullmer, Beverly Waters, Nancy Berrett (Drue's sister) Sue Hunting, Judy Kay Lewis, Marie Hancock, Lana Scott, Janice Rowberry and Lorraine Hammon.  Joyce McMurtery was our umpire from our ward.  We had so much fun.  One night we held a slumber party in Parmer's orchard.  We had a watermelon bust.  Each one of the girls was good sports and they gave me a hundred percent.  What a fun summer we had.  Cleo supported me in all my callings that I had in the church, as I supported him in his callings.  In 1958 these girls and a few more were added to our team: Cheryln Leavitt, Annette Raymond, June Danks, Diane Beyeler, Kay Poole, and Leanne Turman.  Joyce Cook did the pitching for us.  What a special thrill it was for me to have a daughter on the team.  This year our umpires were Beverly Waters and Drue Berrett.  Also on my team were Karen Hancock, Marie Hancock and Gayle Hancock.  The parents of these young ladies supported our team and would make sure their daughters had a way to get to our practices and games. 
We had a parade over in Rigby on the 24th of July.  We decided to enter our ball team.  So we all dressed up in potato sacks from Clifford and Hancock's potato warehouse.  Elwood Clifford and Irvin Hancock let us use one of their trucks for the girls to stand in as a team playing ball.  I sat near the bed of the truck as their coach and score keeper.  For the green field, we borrowed some fake grass from Eckersells.  We won the novelty division and took first place, which was $50.00.  What fun we had spending this.  We also rode the truck and our sacks in the parade in Menan on the 4th of July and won first place there.  Elwood and Irvin said it was good advertisement for their warehouse.  At the end of the summer, we had a ball game with the young men of our ward. The Bishopric furnished the ice cream.  I was elected Secretary of the Midway Jr. High P.T.A. for the school year 1957-58.  Oralee Bennett was the President.  I enjoyed going to the different schools and their meetings to see how they run their P.T.A.  I also attended the state P.T.A. which was held in Idaho Falls.  This job opened my eyes to a lot that went on in the schools. 
I was asked to be stake sports director.  I enjoyed this calling but I surely missed the young ladies from our ward.  I served under the stake young women's presidency.  They were Edna Poole, Norma Clark and Lorraine Gneiting.  Pauline Helm was the stake camp director.  When we went to girl's camp, the girls would do a lot of laughing and talking late in the night when the lights were out.  Pauline warned them and told them to go to sleep, but they didn't listen.  So as soon as that clock stroke 5:00 a.m., Pauline was up and dressed and took her whistle down the halls she went blowing that whistle and telling them that flag raising would be a 6:00 a.m. and for them to be getting up.  If no one stirred, she went into their rooms and stood at the side of their bed and did she ever blow that whistle.  That brought those young ladies up with a start, and the flag was raised at 6:00 a.m.  It only took one morning of this and the young ladies sure settled down the next night.
Pauline and I went to Salt Lake City, Utah for General MIA Conference.  We stayed at Opal and Atha Staker's home.  They treated us royally.  When Nadine Warner was asked to be Young Women's stake president, she asked me to be their camp director.  I told her camping wasn't my idea of having fun, so I declined the calling and that is the first time I had ever done that.  I told her you had to like your calling and as a camp director I knew I wouldn't.  I don't know why she didn't ask Pauline Helm.  The only thing I heard was some of the mothers were quite upset when their daughters told them about Pauline waking them up with her whistle.  I didn't see anything wrong about that for she had warned them they would be sorry.  
Back row: Theron, Lois, Cleo and Ruth
Front row:  Kay, Frank, Darrell, and Joyce

Friday, December 20, 2013

Life Story of Ruth Elizabeth Proctor-Part Seven

Written by
Ruth Elizabeth Proctor Cook
Ruth 
Lois
While living in Roberts, we had another beautiful daughter who came to our home on 11 March 1947.  So now we had two sons and two daughters.  Lois is the name we gave her.  She was a good baby, though she had a mind of her own in many ways.  Cleo blessed her Lois Cook.  Years later I found out that was the name of a girl he was dating before I won his heart.  That didn't bother me any.  While Lois was a baby, we moved from Roberts to a farm outside of Rigby, Idaho.  It belonged to Orrin Jeppson.  Cleo run his farm for quite a few years.  We went to the Rigby First ward. Our Bishop was Henry Pieper.  He was a good man.  Lyle Peterson was one of his counselors.  In this ward I worked in the Primary as a Guide patrol leader.  These were the oldest boys in Primary.  I helped these boys to graduate into MIA:  Blaine Jensen, James Brammer, Ronald Adair, Bobby Tall, Richard Broulim, Keith Ward, Kent Ward, Clair Goody, Dennis Lake, Dale Phillips, Vonnie Fisher, Clive Kinghorn, Paul Wolz, Rex Call, Robert Anderson, Richard Wood, Gary Pettingill, Fred Hayes, Franklin Cook, Ronald Paulsen, and Cecil King.  Most of the boys have served missions, and have married in the temple.  We had many good times together.  Then they decided to divide the ward.   Primary presidents I worked under in Rigby were Estella Call, Ethel Casper, and Ruth Louder. 
Lois and Cleo
Franklin, Theron, and Joyce went to school and Lois was at home.  Cleo had won a nice doll on a slot machine and we had given it to Joyce as she was the oldest girl.  Lois always wanted to play with it, but she wasn't the most careful with dolls, so when Joyce went to school she would hide her doll.  One day Lois found it.  When Joyce came home and went to get her doll, the doll had a new hair style, her eyes didn't open and shut any more.  Glory it was a mess.  Joyce cried and so did Lois.
Lois with Joyce's doll

Lois and Joyce with their dolls

While living on the farm in Rigby, it was during the postwar years.  You couldn't get help for the crops.  So I would go out and work in the fields.  The older ones would also.  We would be so tired at night, but after the chores were done, we would all go swimming in the dry bed that run through the place.  Cleo said the kids should know how to swim, so we taught them in the dry bed.
Theron, Frank, Lois and Joyce at home in Rigby
Theron had a birthday on 24 May.  I was cutting spuds for Fred Allred at one time.  I had got up early and made Theron a cake before I went to work.  Allreds just lived to the end of our lane.  We had also bought some ice cream.  We had planned on having a little family party for him that night when Cleo came in from the fields and I got home from cutting spuds.  Here I was sitting at the kitchen table and relaxing when the school bus stopped out in front.  It was the last day of school.  Not only did Franklin, Theron and Joyce get off the bus, but all of Theron's room.  He had went to school and told them it was his birthday.  They were to bring their lunch and a present and his mom would furnish the cake and ice cream.  They all had a good time playing while I cooled off.  Then they got the cake and ice cream in small amounts.  I spent the rest of the day taking kids home.  I never got back to cutting any spuds that day.  When Cleo came in from the fields and we had had dinner, he asked Theron if he had had a good day.  Theron said it was just super.  After the meal, Cleo asked where the cake and ice cream was.  I told him to ask Theron.  I just got up and walked out of the room.  When Cleo came to bed, he was chuckling.  I told him I didn't think it was that funny.  He said well, he sure got a lot of things and who else would try something like that but our Theron.  Then he told me that Theron had asked him to tell me he loved me and to thank me for taking the kids home and not scolding him in front of them.  Then Cleo and I had a good laugh and said "That's our Theron!"
Frank, Theron, Lois and Joyce

While living on the farm, my sister Annie Carol and her husband George Jaynes came to visit us.  They brought us a lot of fruit for they had it in Pleasant Grove, Utah, where they lived.  They also had three kids, Frank, Vicki, and Bruce.  We had a lot of baby chicks at this time they were there and for some reason, Bruce just loved to catch them and choke them.  One time he got into them.  It was the second time it had happened.  We thought we had everything shut up tight.  We missed Bruce.  I ran out to where my little chicks were and somehow he had crawled through the window.  It wasn't too large of a space, but I went through it too and grabbed him around his neck and threw him out on the ground.  They way he bellered you would of thought I hurt him.  I was so mad.  He had killed 5 baby chicks.  My sister Annie wanted me to tell him I was sorry because I hurt his feelings.  I said, "No way.  He killed five of my baby chicks."  He dad George really got after him and Annie wasn't too happy about that.  We finally got it through Bruce's mind that he must not go near the little chicks any more. 
Lois, Frank, and Theron


Opal and Atha also came to visit us.  One of their boys pulled a plug and the gasoline started to run out of the tractor.  He started hollering for help.  Opal ran outside and asked him where the plug was and he couldn't say anything.  Cleo went out and found where the kid had dropped it and put it back in.  That boy got his bottom warmed by his dad and he never got on the tractor any more.
Lois on Old Pal
We decided to leave Jeppson's farm as he kept promising to let Cleo buy it but would always change his mind.  My brother George talked to Cleo and asked him if he would like to go work on a high power line in Wyoming.  So we had a farm sale and Cleo sold all his machinery and all the animals but one milk cow.  We found us a place in Menan, Idaho, and bought it from Dean Clifford.  Gee it was nice to be in a home with a bathroom in it.  It had a shower, sink and toilet and it was all inside.  That was neat.  The kids and I lived there while Cleo went to Wyoming with George and Libby Proctor.  Cleo was looking for a place for us to live in for we didn't know how long he would be in Wyoming.  He found us a basement apartment.  We loaded up everything we could take and rented our little home in Menan.  When we were moving to Wyoming, Lois was about five years old.  We were traveling along at night and Lois kept asking her daddy to stop and let her ring the door bells that she was seeing along the highway.  Cleo stopped the car right beside a reflector on a metal post.  Cleo got out with her to show her they weren't door bells.  She looked at him and smiled got back into the car and we went along our way.  Lois didn't ask to ring anymore door bells. 
Lois and Joyce
While we were traveling to Lovelle, Wyoming, we smelt the most sickest smell.  I asked the kids if they were letting off those smells.  Each one said no.  I would look at Cleo and he said it wasn't him either.  I told them someone was.  Then Cleo told us to look at the pumps over there going up and down and that they were oil wells and that the smell was coming from them.  I told the kids I sorry because I thought it was from them.
Lois and Joyce
My brother George and Libby had their trailer parked next to the house we were renting.  George and Cleo were working for the C. L. Electric Company.  They were putting a power line across Hardin, Montana.  It was an Indian Reservation.  Cleo and George would come in on Friday nights and we would go to Yellowstone Park.  We would go in our car.  We had a Ford Fairlane 500 which was a very nice large car.  We would sleep in a tent.  Cleo slept on one outside of our big bed and George on the other and the kids in the middle.  
Joyce and Lois in Lovelle, Wyoming



Lois and Joyce in Yellowstone



Theron, 2 little boys ?, Joyce, Frank, Lois in Yellowstone


Theron in Lovelle, Wyoming


Frank in Lovelle, Wyoming


Frank in Yellowstone



Friday, December 13, 2013

Life Story of Ruth Elizabeth Proctor-Part Six

Written by
Ruth Elizabeth Proctor Cook
Ruth Elizabeth Proctor Cook

To our family we added another son, Theron Earl Cook, 24 May 1941.  He was born in Rigby, Idaho.  I was going over to Rigby to stay at Mrs. Lee Hansen's home.  When it came time for Theron to come into this world, Cleo was out on the canal banks fighting the crickets that were coming into Roberts.  Theola and Melba had stopped to see me.  It was the last day of school and they decided they would walk out to where they lived North of Roberts.  I had them go find Cleo for me.  We picked up my sister Atha and to Rigby we did go.  Theron was a good baby and his brother Franklin just loved him and wanted to hold him all the time.
Theron Earl Cook
Frank and Theron

Theron and Frank

Theron and Frank

Theron and Frank

Theron and Frank

Theron and Frank

In 1942 we moved back to the farm as Grandpa Cook decided to quit farming.  Cleo bought out his dad's share of the machinery.  We lived in the rooms on the south side of the house, and Fay and Lila Christensen lived in the rooms on the north.  They had their bedroom upstairs.  We also had a room up there to put our fruit in and to store things in.  Fay was going to farm with Cleo.  This didn't last too long.  Most likely a year or two, then we moved to Rigby and lived on Orrin Jeppson's farm.  Fay and Lila had a son named Arvin and he, Franklin, and Theron played pretty good together.  Lila had a daughter born to them about the time we had Theron.  I think she was born the last of April 1941.  She was called to her Heavenly home when still just a baby.  This was very hard for Fay and Lila.  Her name was Una Dee.  When Fay and Lila moved to Rigby, we had the whole house to ourselves which sure seemed nice.
Cleo and Ruth
     
Cleo, Ruth, Theron, and Franklin


Joyce
We decided to have another member in our family.  6 November 1943, we had a beautiful daughter.  It was the coldest night when she made her appearance to this world.  She had a fine thin skin over her little face.  The lady who took care of me, Mrs. Warren Hall, said she was a holy child.  Dr. Tall told me it was just like a veil.  He just clipped it off.  She was as beautiful then as she is today.  We named her Joyce.  Franklin and Theron thought she was pretty special.  As she was growing up, they didn't always relish the idea of watching her when she was outside playing.  One day they got tired of watching her and locked her in the outhouse.  I went outside to see where the kids were.  I found the boys but no Joyce.  I asked them where she was, and they said they didn't know.  They had forgotten where they had put her.  We all started to hunt for Joyce.  I became quite frightened for we had water running through the barnyard and some places it was quite deep.  We kept calling her name.  I went around the outside toilet and I could hear someone sobbing.  The door was locked so I didn't think she would be in there.   But I opened the door and there lay Joyce near the door.  She had cried herself to sleep.  Her face was dirty from the dirt on the floor and her tears.  I went and found Franklin and Theron and showed them what they had done to their little sister.  Theron said they had put her in there because she was pestering them.  When I picked her up, she woke up and started to cry.  I loved her and took her into the house and cleaned her up.  Then my two sons were feeling bad, but their bottoms felt worse when I got through with them.  They were very careful to watch her from then on.  I asked what would have happened to Joyce if she had fallen down into the toilet.  Both of them said she sure would of been a mess.  That is when they got their bottoms warmed very well. 
Frank and Joyce


Theron and Joyce

Frank, Joyce, Theron
It wasn't long after this when I was cooking for the men who were helping Cleo.  This day it was just Paul Rottweiler.  He was a farmer who lived just south of us.  The kids were outside playing and Franklin came into the house.  I asked him where Theron was.  He said he couldn't find him.  I told him to go out and look again.  He came back in and no Theron.  So I started to look for him.  I went down by the running water but there weren't any tracks of him being there.  We had a rack built on our porch where Cleo put the milk cans and he had just bought two new cans.  We sold milk to a dairy.  We told the kids they must not play near those milk cans.  I started calling his name.  When I got near the cans, I could hear a feeble reply, "I is here."  I looked and one of the new cans had been taken off the rack and lo and behold there were two large brown eyes looking up at me.  He had been crying.  I asked him how in the world did he ever get into that milk can?  I tried to get him out but I couldn't so I went into the house and put all the dinner I was fixing o the back of my coal stove.  I told Franklin to watch Joyce and started out across the fields to where Cleo and Paul were working with the tractor.  He and Paul saw me running and knew something was wrong at the house, so they came to meet me with the tractor.  They both worked and worked but couldn't seem to get Theron out.  Paul said we would have to take him in the can to the blacksmith in Roberts and have him cut the can.  I said no way.  We would just leave him in there for he was told not to bother those cans and that Cleo could pour the milk over the top of him and we would just send him to the creamery.  Theron begged us not to do that and said he wouldn't bother the cans anymore.  I finally got some lard and they greased him around his shoulders.  Finally they got one shoulder up then the other and we got him out.  Cleo told them their mother had to wash the can out with boiling water and let the sun dry it and for them not to bother the cans again, and they didn't.
Joyce
The house we lived in was two stories with a high pointed roof.  One night Cleo was going out to milk and he could hear someone saying, “Hi, Daddy."  He looked all around and couldn't see anyone.  Then he heard it again.  He looked up and there was Theron waving his arms like he was riding a bucking horse.  He was straddling the roof.  Cleo came back into the house and told me where Theron was.  He wanted me to go out and talk to him while he went upstairs and out through the window that Theron had went through to get to the roof.  I kept him talking and kept sliding forward towards the end of the roof.  Finally Cleo got behind him and got him off the roof.  
Joyce and Theron
Those two boys used to go out in the chicken coop to gather the eggs.  They would put them in their overall pockets.  It seemed like either one of them or both of them would fall down and what a mess we had then.  We didn't have a dull moment in our household, but it was surely a house of love.  
Joyce
I had a cookie jar sitting on my fridge. I still have the same one today.  It didn't have any cookies in it, but Theron would push a chair up to the door.  It had a handle on it that worked quite well for him to put his foot upon the top of the fridge he would go.  I was afraid he would fall so I told Franklin when he did it to come and tell me.  I would no more than get under the clothes line when Franklin would come out and say to me that he was doing it again.  I would go into the house and lift him off the fridge.  How he never fell, I will never know.
Frank, Joyce, and Theron
To top this off, one Sunday we were getting ready to go to church and Theron couldn't find his shoes.  We hunted all over the house.  Cleo had to go to church without us since he was in the Sunday School Superintendency.  So the kids and I stayed home.  I started to get our dinner ready and in the bottom of the refrigerator we had a bin where I kept potatoes and carrots.  I opened it up to get out the potatoes and lo and behold, there were Theron's shoes, both his Sunday ones and the ones he wore for every day.  I asked him why he put them there; he said they needed company for the night.  From then on we always looked for his shoes on Saturday night.
Theron, Joyce, Frank
I got Joyce some new panties with ruffles on them and told her they were for Sunday.  One Sunday morning she wore a pair to church.  We went into the chapel and as we met Cleo who was standing by the door talking with Arthur Jensen, Joyce went running up to her Dad and bent over and puller her dress over her head and told her Dad to look at her new pants with all the ruffles on them.  Cleo just about passed out he was so embarrassed.  He wasn't sure he wanted to claim her as his daughter.  All the men around there and myself just had a good laugh.
Theron, Frank, Joyce
While we were living in that house north of Roberts, we had electricity when the wind blew and charged the wind charger.  Cleo and Carl had bought one for their folks when they lived there.  Other than that we used the coal oil lamps for quite a while until they finally got the electric lines out that far.
Cleo and Joyce
I started going to Relief Society and my visiting teaching companion was my mother-in-law, Lena Cook.  What a beautiful lady she was. We would have to walk most of the time to do our teaching.  She taught me so many things.  I also worked in Primary. These are the sisters who were Primary presidents that I worked under: Stella Dineen, Alice Jefferies, Agnes Levine, Nora Hill and Martha Dalley.  I also taught the Larks, Blazers, and was secretary in Primary and the chorister.
Frank, Joyce and Theron on porch at home in Roberts