Friday, February 28, 2014

Life Story of Cleo Earl Cook-Part 1

                                           LIFE HISTORY OF CLEO EARL COOK

Cleo Earl Cook

18 January 1911 a son was born to James Edward and Christina Magadalena Buchmiller Cook in LaBelle, Idaho in Jefferson County.  He was the fourth child and second son in a family of four boys and nine girls.  He weighed seven pounds.  Cleo, was blessed 26 February 1911 by his father.  Cleo was baptized 2 August 1919 by Samuel H. Hunt and confirmed 3 August 1919 by Evan Huntsman.  I didn't have any records of when Cleo was ordained a Deacon, Teacher, or Priest, but he was ordained an Elder, 15 October 1939 by Lawrence Carr.
James Edward and Christina Magdalena Buchmiller Cook

Cleo, lived in Taylorsville, Shelley, Woodville, Coltman, Ucon, Grant, and Roberts, Idaho.  He went to school in Ucon, Woodville, Coltman and Shelley.  Cleo walked to school every day with his brother and sisters and in the winter he often got very cold.  One time he froze his hands so badly that he had great big blisters on his hands.  The first winter his sister Vendetta went to school, Cleo and Carl took turns pulling her on her little sleigh.  Cleo enjoyed school and was a very good student.  He was always active in sports and enjoyed pulling little stunts and tricks on his teachers and was punished when he was caught.

Home of the Cook Family in Coltman about 1925.  Of course this is how it looks today.

Cleo was adventurous and liked to go wandering through the sage brush hunting anything or just exploring.  He would tell his mother he was going rattle snake hunting.  It was after the family had moved from LaBelle to Taylorville that his exploring caused quite a lot of excitement.  They had gone to pick raspberries and while the others picked, Cleo wandered away.  They searched the rest of the day and into the night.  Men rode horses and used flashlights searching through a grain field.  Finally Cleo came wandering out of the field.  He had grown tired of exploring and had curled up and gone to sleep in the tall grain.
Cleo was always happy and he liked to tease.  It was hard for anyone to get the best of him.  One day he was teasing and chasing his sister, Edna Cook Ririe with a stove poker in his hand and he accidently hit her on the nose and broke it.  He felt so bad that he had hurt her and made her cry.  Things were never dull when Cleo was around.
Edna Jane Cook Ririe

The children in the Cook family weren't allowed to swear and if they did and they were caught they would get their mouths scrubbed out with A.B. Naphtha soap on a tooth brush.  This is a very strong soap.  One day Cleo was told to go out and get some wood from the big wood pile.  Cleo had other things he wanted to do but his father told him to go out and get that wood.  While Cleo was loading his arms up with the wood, he started swearing.  His father came around the wood pile and heard him.  He asked Cleo just what he thought he was doing.  Cleo replied he was mocking the old red rooster.  Cleo got a spanking and his mouth scrubbed out with soap that day.
Cooks had to heat their bath water in a large boiler on their cook stove.  The water had just been poured into a large tin tub, when Cleo came running in from outside.  He tripped and fell into this very hot water.  There was an old Indian lady who was at the home when this happened.  She went out in the sand hills and got some black powder and spread it all over Cleo.  His hot water bath that day never left any burns on his body.  The Indian lady wouldn't tell them where she got the powder.  She said she had helped Cleo because his mother had helped her and given her food.

While Cooks were living on the dry farm, one Tuesday night the kids were left home while their parents went to Mutual.  Those at home at the time were: Agnes, Edna, Carl, and Cleo.  Cleo went outside and then he came back in and told Agnes and Edna that someone was lighting matched upstairs.  They went out to look and they could see a fire just starting to come through the roof.  They tried to carry water to put it out and just about had it out when they run out of water.  Then they carried everything they could out.  His folks saw the fire and started back.  By the time they arrived there, it was too late.  They lost everything and their home.  They had to live in a granary the rest of the year.  This happened in the fall of the year.  While living in this granary, the kids came down with the measles.  They had to build bunk beds along the wall for all of them to have a place to sleep.

Dad's family
Front Theola and Melba
Grandpa and Grandma Cook (James Edward and Christina Magdalena)
Carl, Cleo, Reva, and Leora

Thursday, February 27, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 27 and 28

Questions for these two days:  Tell about the best pet you ever had and Tell about other pets you had.

Answer:  Mother left these two pages blank.  I am not sure why because I know that she had some pets.  All our family will remember our dogs Peppy and Puddles.  I know that Mother loved those two little dogs very much.  Puddles was a dachshund and Peppy.

Kay with Peppy

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 26

Question:  Tell about a favorite "hang out" place for you and your friends in Jr. or Sr. High.

Answer:  Coconut Grove Dance Hall in Salt Lake City, Utah, and also Coon Chicken Inn in Salt Lake City, Utah, and Settlement Canyon in Tooele, Utah.

     I tried to find a really good picture of Coon Chicken Inn.  I didn't care for the cartoon figure in this one but it was the best I could find.  People entered the restaurant through the giant mouth.  I found the following information on Wikipedia:   Coon Chicken Inn was an American chain of three restaurants founded by Maxon Lester Graham and Adelaide Burt in 1925, which prospered until the late 1950s. The restaurant's name (which uses an ethnic slur), trademarks, and entrances of the restaurants were designed to look like a smiling blackface caricature of an African-American porter. The smiling capped porter head also appeared on menus, dishes, and promotional items.  The first Coon Chicken Inn was opened in suburban Salt Lake CityUtah in 1925. In 1929, another restaurant was opened in then-suburban Lake City near Seattle, Washington, and a third was opened in the Hollywood District of Portland, Oregon, in 1931. Later, a cabaret, orchestra, and catering were added to the Seattle and Salt Lake restaurants. 

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 25

Question:  Tell of a place that you discovered or built as a "haven" for your gang.

Answer:  A tree house in an apple tree in Tooele, Utha, when we lived at 387 South First West in Tooele.
Home at 387 South First West in Tooele, Utah
(I have another record where it state the home was on 367 South First West. Not sure which one is correct.)

Monday, February 24, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 24

Question:  Describe a place you liked to go to be alone.

Answer:  In a grape arbor my folks had when we lived at 312 South Main, Tooele, Utah

This is inside the home on West Main.
Annie Ludlow and George Kidd Proctor on their 50th Wedding Anniversary

Sunday, February 23, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 23

Question:  What is the biggest problem you remember having in Sr. High School?

Answer:  Geometry

Saturday, February 22, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 22

Question:  What is the biggest problem you remember having in Jr. High School?

Answer:  Taking art and trying to learn how to draw anything so it looked decent, especially to my art teacher, Mrs. Larson.

Friday, February 21, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 21

Question:  What is the biggest problem you remember having in grade school?

Answer:  Story problems in Math




Life Story of Ruth Elizabeth Proctor-1918-1999

Ruth Elizabeth Proctor Cook
Born: 16 November 1918
Died: 9 November 1999


     We lost our precious Mother on 9 November 1999.  She fell in her home sometime during the night 24-25 of  September 1999.  I found her the morning of the 25th.  It almost broke my heart.  Mark called our good friend and Mother's neighbor, Lynn Taylor and he came and helped Mark get her into her bed. I called all of my siblings to let them know.  Joyce came from Blackfoot as fast as she could.  We decided to help Mother get dressed.  She was kind of out of it.  As we lifted her nightie, we could see that she was bleeding eternally and was not responding to us.  So we hurriedly called 911.  She was transported to the Madison Memorial hospital leaving the home she loved so much forever.  
     We spent many absolutely, never to be forgotten times with Mother in the hospital.  Her room was literally a spiritual haven.  We were able to experience many sacred moments with her.  No one wanted to leave her room because there was such a wonderful spirit there.
     One Sunday I came into the hospital and the nurses were busy getting ready to move Mother.  I asked them what they were doing and they told me they were moving her to ICU.  I asked them why and they told me they couldn't tell me.  So I told them they weren't moving her anywhere until I knew why.  Luckily just at that moment, Dr. Redd came into the room.  He said that Mother wasn't getting enough oxygen and it was just getting too hard for her to breath and they wanted to put her on a ventilator as he didn't think she would make it through the night without it.  Oh boy, did that catch me off guard.  I asked him if he would give me a couple of hours since I was the only one of her family there.  He said he would but they wanted to move her and get things set up immediately.  
     I called Mark, who was out doing his home teaching, to hurry and come to the hospital.  Then I got busy and dialed the phone so Mother could talk to her children and grandchildren who I knew wouldn't be able to get to the hospital.  While she talked to them, I called the ones nearby and told them to come as fast as they could if they wanted to be able to speak to Mother and her to them before they put her on the ventilator.  
     After two hours, the doctor came back in and checked her oxygen level.  It hadn't changed at all,  So he said he was going to leave the hospital with orders to hook her up as soon as it changed and that he would also check with them throughout the night.  A great miracle happened that night in that small ICU room.  Mother's oxygen level didn't change and they didn't hook her up to life support.  When Dr. Redd came in the next morning he was very surprised.  He asked Mother, "Ruth, are you tired of breathing."  My dear sweet Mother looked at him and said in all seriousness, "Well what kind of stupid question is that?"  He said that really was a stupid question.   We all got quite the chuckle out of it.  She never did have to go on life support and actually improved to the point that they were able to move her to rehabilitation home near the hospital.  They said she would have to remain there until she could help get herself out of bed and walk with help.
     No one worked harder than my wonderful Mother did.  She tried so so hard and did everything they asked of her.  I would go up to Rexburg after school and she would tell me all about what she had done that day.  I was so very very proud of her.  She wanted to be able to come home for Thanksgiving.  
     One night I went in and they told me she had fallen out of bed.  I couldn't believe it.  I asked them why they didn't have the railings up on her bed.  They told me they could only put up one side without a doctor's order.  I told them they had better darn well get one and that that had better never happen to her again.  They said they would get right on it.
     Well the next day during the very first period of school, they came to my room and told me I need to call the rehabilitation place.  I thought it was about putting the railing up on her bed so I told the office I would call as soon as first period was over with.  About ten minutes later they came to my room again and told me to call them now.  So I stepped out and called.  They told me Mother had taken a turn for the worst and they needed permission to transport her to the hospital.  Of course, I told them to do it by all means and I was on my way.  I stepped back into my room, told the office lady I was leaving, to get a substitute, and that I didn't know when I would be back and off I went.
     On the way I called Mark and asked him to hurry to the hospital and then called my siblings.  Mother was in pretty bad shape when I got there.  She rallied somewhat and we were able to have a few more precious days with her.  She was on constant communication with the other side of the veil those last few days and nights.  It was an amazing experience to be with her.  
     The day before she died, the nurse came in take care of her and I told him Mark and I were going to step out for a few minutes and go to the cafeteria and grab some breakfast.  He said he would stay with her until we came back.  Just as we were stepping out the door, my Mother said, "Let me die, let me die, let me die."  Those were the last words she ever said.  She had not wanted to die until that moment.  She had fought so hard for so long.  She was tired and ready to go Home.  I called everyone and told them it wouldn't be long now and they had better come.  Everyone of the kids were able to get there but Frank who was so very very ill.  Little did we know we would lose him in just a few short months.  They next day, 9 November 1999, with her family gathered around her hospital bed, Mother was able to shed this earthly body and joined her family on the other side.  It was a bitter sweet day.  We all miss her so much but wouldn't make her come back for anything.  We know she is happy and with her loved one.
     We are all trying to live so we can be with you and our other loved ones again some day.  Until that day, we MISS you and LOVE You, Mother Dear.
     Here are some pictures that were taken at the funeral home the night of her viewing, 11 November 1999.

Family display

James, Frank, Ilene and Lois

Lois, Frank, Steven and Ilene

Mark, Frank, Ryan and Nicole holding Caleb

Steven, Ilene, Cindy, Frank and Joyce
In back ground: George, Theron, Carla

Ilene, Frank and Mother

Kay, Joyce, Mark, Lois, Faylene and Kent Christensen, Lucy and Kay Clark

Shellie, Cindy, Travis, Amy, George

Jared, Nicole, Caleb

Carla and Theron

Chris holding Alanna Ruth (named after her Great Grandmother Cook and Brian

Jared, Nicole, Greg, Ryan, and Matt

Greg, Ryan, Matt and Jeremy

Notices in newspapers

Funeral Program

Death Certificate

Headstone
















Thursday, February 20, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 20

Question:  What do you remember as your least favorite school subject.

Answer:  Any kind of math, though I like multiplication.

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 19

Question:  What do you remember as your favorite subject in school?

Answer:  English and Spelling

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 18

Question:  Tell about family reunions in your childhood.

Answer:  We had a Proctor family reunion at Lagoon in Utah.  Also had some at Arrow Head in Utah and Saratoga in Utah.

Monday, February 17, 2014

Mom Share Your Life with Me - February 17

Question:  Tell about your first favorite TV shows.

Answer:  Mother didn't put anything here.  She didn't have a television until the mid 1950s.  I know that Dad and Mom used to like to watch Bonanza.